Creep

I went to sleep last night with pepper spray in my hand...

I was way friendlier than I usually am when I first moved here and now I can see that my usual coldness is for good reason!

I met this guy my first couple of weeks here... David something or other. I don't think I would have ever talked to him had I been settled in here already. I had lunch with him twice in the course of like 2 months. He was kind of annoying so I never wanted to hang out with him.. every time he'd ask I told him I was busy or had friends visiting. He seemed okay though cause he'd always respect my schedule and not badger if I said I'm busy for the whole week (or one time a whole month lol)

Fast forward few more months. I never wanted to hang out with him.. made friends with people I like.. kept getting texts from David every once in a while and way to often he'd send me a picture of his ugly ass face... I mean... WHY?? I'm conceited and I don't even do that!! Wtf. What did he think I was going to do with his pictures except show them to my friends and laugh. !?!??!

Then one day he sent a text that infuriated me "I want to know you better. What you like, what you don't like, when's the first time you had sex, how many guys have you been with, what's your favorite position etc" or something like that...

I'm not the prudest person in the world (okay maybe I am. LOL) and I don't mind talking to my friends about sex but from a complete creepy stranger that really pissed me off.. so I messaged him back and told him "Heres what I don't like: Guys like you. Don't contact me again"

I thought he got the point until he called again last night.This is like 2-3 months later.

I received a blocked call in the middle of the night and when I picked up the caller hung up. I thought it was kind of weird but maybe my mom called on accident cause our house number in blocked.

Anyway, 10 minutes later he called again.
"Hello???"
"Hi Cat"
"Who's this?"
"Um.. ummmm... it's me.. David.. the guy you don't like... I just called cause I was near your place.. umm what's up with you?"
"Um. Why are you calling me? Do you know what time it is? What do you want?"
"Ehh well I just wanted to talk to you. You know? I feel bad, dont want it to end the way it did, I was inappropriate, I didn't know you would get so pissed, I'm sorry"
"Why are you calling me this late?? I have school.. and why'd you call and hang up earlier"
"Oh um.. my phone died earlier. I'm by your place.. wanted to see you, do you want to get something to eat?"
"NO, don't call me this late"
"Are you.. sure..? Let's get somethign to eat"
-- i started to get really mad --
"No, don't fucking call me this late with a blocked number!"
"Yeah but.. i'm by your place. I wanted to stop by or something. Maybe we can do something"
"I HAVE SCHOOL"
"Okay I'm sorry"
"I'm going back to sleep. BYE"


I got off the phone and guess what happened 10 minutes later? He called AGAIN... I was saying "Hello???" and all he did was just stay on the other line breathing. I hung up and he called again.. this time I answered with "What the fuck is your problem??" and he hung up.


WHAT A CREEP. I honestly thought he was going to come knocking on my door and do something stupid and I have no gangster / exfighter friends in LA to call in times like these. I was so freaked out... in fact while I called my friend to tell him what happened I was almost going to cry because I know just how easy it is to break my door down! omg.

So I finally went to sleep after talking to two friends... I realized the first one I called doesn't even live in California so that wasn't very comforting LOL so I called my other friend and my friend couldn't pick me up cause he just sold his car n was carless but he calmed me down and talked me to sleep for half an hour. :(

I slept with my pepper spray that Danny got for me and the whole time I was kinda afraid I'd accidentally unlock it in my sleep and spray myself LOL


Anyway, everything turned out okay but at the time I was really freaked out. Ugh. No wonder I've been avoiding guys like a plague.. -___-